Friday, July 10, 2009

from one traveller to another,,, (life)




you are where you are.

let's start with that. it's true, after all, and denying it, fighting against it, pretending otherwise amounts to nothing more than a waste of these precious few moments of life we're gifted with.

you are where you are.

and it is a lovely place to begin. even if it's painful, even if it's not where you saw yourself 10 years ago, or 10 months, or 10 days. it's lovely because it's what you have, and what you have is so much more than so many others are gifted with,,, more than you often give yourself credit for.

imagine yourself on a map. are you limited as to which direction you can go? certainly there are circumstances of terrain that may provide greater ease or challenge, but the vital truth is and will always remain that any direction is available to you.

even if it's a direction you've never gone before, even if it contains unknowable obstacles,,, the power of choice rests or rises with you.


you are where you are.

and you, as the traveler, now have the privilege of deciding where to go from here. just as, where you have been in no way dictates where you must go, it is equally true that your past cannot decide your future.

yes, it can be scary to leave the paths you have worn, over so many years of dusty repetition, but when the roads you know don't take you to where you know, in your heart, you must be,,, it is time to quit lamenting the fact and blaze off bravely in the direction of the undiscovered.

what a miracle that you have feet! what a miracle that they will take you in absolutely any direction that you tell them to go! you are blessed with a vehicle far more marvelous and sophisticated than anything the human mind has yet to or ever will conceive.

it is one thing to sit upon the sidelines of life and bemoan your fate, and it is another entirely to shake yourself free of mentally-cobwebbed ideas and start moving.


move!!!


move until your amble becomes a walk, until your walk becomes a jog, until your jog becomes a run, until your feet find their gravity-escaping rhythm and you take flight.

are you facing a fire? it is when you are stuck - motionless - that flames burn the worst,,, remember when, as a child, you moved your finger through the candle flame fast enough, it had no power to touch you.

remember the joy of that, the triumph in it, my friends, and move.


move until the air before you becomes a cool wind on your face, until the scenery rushes past in a celebration of your speed.

move until you find yourself in the clearing you are looking for. i promise you, it exists on the other side of whatever lies between you and that place of rest.


when caught in the frustrating mazes of life, we are often closer to freedom than we realize. a view from above adds the clear perspective we are blind to when we think only on ground levels.

when you cannot go left, and you are blocked from going right,,, when the way in front of you is too tangled, and you know you must leave what is behind,,,

go up, my friends, go up.

you will find there the far-view,,, drink in the picturesque scenery of hope that every weary traveller at some point needs.


you are where you are.

perhaps because you are learning things now that are seeds for blessings in days to come, for plantings you have not yet imagined.

you are where you are.

perhaps because you are accumulating experience that will someday be the common ground on which you meet the love of your life, your greatest friend, or your self.

you are where you are.

because the sometimes difficult, but ground-shaking truth is,,,
you are choosing to be.


we can't always control where the winds of this life blow us, how far they might veer us from the flight-paths we'd projected,,,

but until the moment our last spark of life passes from this vehicle of our body and moves into the next,,, it remains our choice to rise up from wherever we are, no matter the obstacles, no matter the challenges, no matter the odds, and to move, one precious step at a time,,,

footprint by footprint, handhold by handhold, until at last we find our home.


i love you so much, my beautiful friends, i pray every day that the wings you've been keeping secret will one day be loosed.

until that day,,,

jesh *

39 comments:

Shaun Scade said...

Thanks Jesh, I think I needed that.

porter said...

this is great, Jesh... thank you

Endearing Studios said...

Thank you for your post. Your words were not only beautiful but just what I needed to hear.

Hi! My name is Janet. said...

thank you. i too needed that today. this week. this month. this year.

Jen Williams said...

Thank you for being you Jesh.
xo

heaven said...

dear soul,

your words are my gift today...I know I am not the only one in the throws of 'what will be' By sharing your heart, joy and grace you bless this life in turn I pass the blessing and share my light...peace i know you, love i feel you.. joy i could not wish for more. Love you jesh.

~heaven

Meg said...

"because the sometimes difficult, but ground-shaking truth is,,, you are choosing to be."

Such truth. I've shared this with everyone I know- thanks Jesh.

alicia said...

Thank you Jesh. Thank you! I needed this. I don't know where it will lead me, but I needed it. Thank you.

sui said...

thank you so much for this.

James Day said...

Jesh, I feel like you wrote this for me. I'm pretty sure you didn't, but it resonates so LOUDLY within me right now and all im facing in life. Jesh, you are amazing!
JD

Anonymous said...

You are, quite simply, amazing.

Shelly Edwards said...

Wow, thanks a tun Jesh! :-) That must have taken a lot of thought to pen those words! Just like many of the other persons who commented, I needed to hear those words and am inspired by them! May you continue to bless others not only with your pictures but also with your words and you continue to receive blessings yourself! :-)

Shelly

Anonymous said...

I am just in awe at the timing of these words. I needed this more than you will ever know. Thank you!

Choco Studio said...

That was amazing, Jesh. We love you too. Thank you for being you.

Liz said...

my favorite line: you are choosing to be.
:)

what inspired this post?

K. Crafton Photography said...

Inspired as always...thank you so much for posting that. I needed it today!

Jesh de Rox said...

thank you, my friends, i am touched by your kindness : )

Liz: i felt it want to move through me, and gave it some space to do so. i'm never sure why exactly, just that it wants to come.

sometimes the posts are inspired by things i experience and/or witness, and other times they use what language i have to express something i don't even entirely understand.

i am getting better at not needing to understand.

it's a wonderful thing to be able to give birth to something that blesses others - a great blessing to me.

thank you for sharing!

trishia said...

Jesh, thank you. In addition to being a photographer, I am a Girl Scout Leader, constantly striving to give my girls wings. This note is going into a file for them to read when they are just a bit older.

This part, oh, this part "i pray every day that the wings you've been keeping secret will one day be loosed. " beautiful.

Daniel J Pesta said...

THanks Jesh for the inspiring words that are just at the right time. Moving towards directions and dreams!! May you be enriched in life as much as you enrich others,

Daniel

Alex D said...

Perhaps the greatest modern philosopher of our time. Some of the truest words I've heard, thankyou.

Anonymous said...

I'll be sharing with many a friend; Thank You. What an amazing message.

Anonymous said...

This is one of my favorites, Jesh. What a profound post...and so moving.
Many blessing to you.

Kiera said...

Seriously? I am amazed by you. Thank you for your clarity and vision.

Candy said...

Thank you Jesh, this is amazing; and I need to read it everyday. Everyone needs to read this. I'm so thankful to Tamara for leading me to your blog so I get to learn from you.

AHS Photography said...

that was so wonderful

Anonymous said...

Thanks a lot. You are great Jesh(as we all are), thanks for sharing it with us. It just made my day

jodi renee said...

Jesh...your words grow more and more beautiful...I'm so grateful to you.

Where once I was stuck - I now just *am*. Here. The freedom that comes with surrendering...
We don't need to know. We CAN NOT possibly know...ideas, expectations, and the 'figuring things out'...
If we let this all go, there is so much beautiful space to dance, play and just 'be'...

I have been in the way of my own life for SO long...realizing that I needed to get out of my own way to ...LIVE.

Substituting control with CURIOUSITY, fear with EXCITEMENT...we get to choose. We get to write our own stories. And it's often the toughest times that bring forth so much change, opportunity and growth. Fear showing up to push us, show us there is something 'great' on the other side of it.

YOUR wings Jesh have so much momentum...they give us the push we all need at times just to know that we can fly on our own. If even just briefly, the experience of flight will expose the truth...
That it's always 'within'...
We are exactly where we need to be...

{thank you!}
xo
jodi

Jesh de Rox said...

wow, thank you all so much!!!

Jodi: that is such an incredibly beautiful sharing. i am so proud of you : ) : ) : )

there is nothing more beautiful to me than the unbound heart.

thank you so much for giving,,,

dawn said...

dear jesh,
i read your beautiful words on aluna joy's website and had to take the time to say "thank you". very nicely put...something i needed to hear today.
blessings,
dawn

Christoph Schiffer said...

Dear Jesh de Rox, living in Bremen, northern germany, I don`t feel there would be a better place to live. Thoughtfully reading your poem, I felt whereever I live - it does not matter wether it rains all day long, or whatever - I have to get to myself... Thank you so much, Christoph

Tamara Lackey said...

I think this is my favorite post of yours ever, jesh. and - as you know - that's saying quite a lot. kinda just perfect :)

Susie said...

this is beautiful. i'm a new fan.

Tory said...

I haven't visited your website in some months - and I'm not sure if I ever even knew that you had a blog. But, something called me to visit your corner of the web this morning and I think it was this post.
The words are very much something that I need to hear and remember.
Thank you.

Jewels said...

Wow, you said that beautifully!

kerjay said...

What amazing and true words, that fit my life in such a way right now. I don't know what led me to check your blog tonight, but we have decided as a family to make our move, once again, from what is familiar and ours and take on a new challenge for a few years. I am hoping this direction is the right move to make, and with reading your post - it's is the next direction our lives are supposed to go. It was only a few months ago I felt lost in what was next, and now I know. Thank you Jesh! Thank you! You are such a wonderful person to share this with everyone, and I intend on reading it everyday.

Kayla Renckly said...

inspiring and beautiful. such a simple truth but one we so often need to be reminded of.

PhotosbyMillie said...

My photography has been such a source for self exploration, and at times I become so frustrated with the process I want to put my camera down and walk away. Feel exhausted and frustrated with all of my short comings, and the heat of the competition so fierce, I often feel like I can't make it.
But this, your words, your inspiration gives me the drive to keep going and to embrace that heat. It helps me see the potential that my fingers hold, and gives me the drive to harness into something great.

So thank you. Because, you are who you are I have found the drive to find and become who I am.

Nikita said...

That was absolutely wonderful!

Nikita said...

That was absolutely wonderful!